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r Virgo: A Letter to the Perfectionist Female Dear Virgo, I know you well, my dear. I know that you strive for perfection in everything that you do. Your attention to detail and your analytical mind make you one of the most competent and reliable individuals out there. You are always one step ahead of everyone else and people admire you for that. However, I also know that this perfectionism of yours can sometimes be a burden. You set the bar so high that you can never seem to reach your own expectations. You are constantly criticizing yourself and your work, which can lead to self-doubt and anxiety. I want you to know that it's okay to not be perfect all the time. It's okay to make mistakes and to learn from them. Life is not meant to be flawless, and the sooner you accept that, the happier you'll be. Instead of striving for perfection, strive for excellence. Excellence means doing the best you can with what you have. It means putting in the effort and having a growth mindset. It means acknowledging your weaknesses and working on them instead of beating yourself up over them. I also want to remind you to take care of yourself, both mentally and physically. Your perfectionism can sometimes make you neglect your own needs. But you cannot pour from an empty cup, so please prioritize your own well-being. Lastly, remember that your perfectionism is both a strength and a weakness. It's what makes you stand out, but it's also what can hold you back. Find a balance between striving for excellence and being gentle with yourself. You are capable of greatness, my dear Virgo, but you don't have to be perfect to achieve it. With love, Someone who understands.