As
a maid of honor, I have witnessed the love story of my best friend, who is a Virgo, and her fiancé. They have been together for nearly a decade and have experienced numerous ups and downs. However, their path to marriage was far from smooth. The first hurdle for my friend was her own perfectionism. Being a Virgo, she has a strong desire for everything to be perfect, including her relationship. She set high standards for her partner and constantly evaluated his performance as a boyfriend. She often doubted whether he could meet her expectations and if he was truly the best fit for her. On the other hand, her fiancé was relatively easygoing and sometimes lacked initiative. He didn't always understand or appreciate my friend's meticulousness, and sometimes he didn't know how to deal with her criticisms. This led to frequent arguments and conflicts throughout their dating history. But the biggest challenge they faced was from external pressure. My friend's family was very traditional, and they had strong expectations about what kind of man their daughter should marry. They believed that the man should be stable, reliable, and financially well-off, and my friend's fiancé did not meet those criteria. As a result, my friend's family strongly opposed their relationship and tried various ways to break them up. However, my friend loved her fiancé deeply, and she refused to give up on their relationship. She fought against her own doubts and fears, and she also stood up to her family's disapproval. She was determined to marry the man she loved, even if it meant going against her family's expectations. Finally, after years of persistence, my friend and her fiancé got engaged. But the happiness was short-lived. In the process of planning their wedding, they faced even more obstacles. My friend's perfectionism and attention to detail made it difficult for them to agree on many aspects of the wedding ceremony. Her fiancé felt overwhelmed and got increasingly frustrated with her demands. Meanwhile, her family continued to express their disapproval, and their constant criticism made things even worse. The wedding day itself was a disaster. My friend was so nervous and anxious that she felt sick, and she couldn't enjoy the moment. Her fiancé, who wanted to please her, tried to accommodate all her wishes, but he felt overwhelmed and unhappy. The tension in the air was palpable, and everyone could feel it. Despite trying to make everything perfect, my friend realized that it was far from ideal, and in the end, she felt disappointed and sad. As a maid of honor, I watched my friend's journey to marriage with a heavy heart. I saw how her perfectionism and external pressures had made her suffer, and how her desire for perfection had led to many conflicts and disappointments. I also saw how her fiancé loved her despite her flaws, and how he patiently waited for her to overcome her doubts and fears. In conclusion, marrying a Virgo can be a blessing and a curse. Their high standards and perfectionism can be both a source of motivation and a burden. However, if you are patient and understanding, and if you love them unconditionally, they will reward you with their loyalty and devotion.